Will we have to share personal things with other couples?

No. This couples intimacy workshop experience is entirely private. There are no group sessions, no shared environments, and no interaction with other couples at any point during the workshop. Everything takes place between you, your partner, and the facilitator in a fully confidential one-on-one setting. This format is particularly valuable for couples who require a higher level of personal discretion — including those in professional or public-facing roles. The complete absence of any group dynamic means both partners can speak and engage openly and honestly, without concern about being observed or overheard by others at any point in the process.

How long is the workshop, and when does it run?

Workshop scheduling and availability may vary depending on the time of year and on current demand. Couples are encouraged to enquire directly about upcoming dates and available format options through the contact process on this site. Whether you are looking to book in the near future or are planning further ahead, the team can advise on what is currently available and help you identify a schedule that works well for both of you. For couples with more pressing or urgent needs, it is worth reaching out as early as possible in order to discuss and secure your preferred available date.

Couples Intimacy Workshop: A Structured Path Back to Connection

The intimacy workshop for couples offers a structured, private path to rebuild connection through guided sessions focused on communication, emotional safety, and physical reconnection without the intensity of a full retreat.

Guided Intimacy Exercises for Couples: What Happens in the Workshop

Intimacy exercises for couples produce different outcomes when guided by a licensed clinician than when attempted independently, and the difference is not incidental. In this workshop, every emotional intimacy exercise for couples is introduced, practiced during the session, and followed by real-time feedback from Andrew Sofin. When defensiveness surfaces or emotional safety wavers mid-exercise, he can intervene immediately. That capacity to correct in the moment — rather than debrief it a week later — is what allows the exercises to address both emotional and physical reconnection without one stalling the other.

Workshop or Retreat: Which Is Right for You?

A couple’s intimacy workshop focuses on structured sessions and practical tools within a shorter format. A retreat offers a deeper, immersive multi-day experience. The workshop suits couples seeking guided skill-building or a starting point. The retreat is better for significant disconnection or complex challenges.

Workshop or Retreat: Which Is Right for You?

What our Couples Intimacy Workshop Covers

This structured workshop moves through five focused modules. You’ll identify your interaction cycle and shift from blame to understanding. Core sessions build emotional safety and teach communication tools that are practiced in real time — not just in theory. Physical reconnection is approached as an extension of emotional closeness, removing pressure. The final module delivers a personalized forward plan to sustain progress after the workshop ends.

A Private Workshop — Just the Two of You

Tailored Therapy

This intimacy workshop is entirely private. No group setting, no other couples present. Every conversation and exercise takes place one-on-one with your facilitator in a fully confidential environment — ideal for couples who value discretion.

Who the Workshop Is For

This couples workshop is designed for a range of relationship stages, but it is particularly well-suited to three types of couples.

The first group is enhancement couples. These are partners who already have a stable relationship but want to deepen their connection. They are not in crisis, but they recognize the value of learning tools that strengthen communication and intimacy over time.

The second group is reconnection couples. These couples have experienced a gradual drift. Communication may feel strained, emotional closeness has decreased, and physical intimacy may have changed. They are looking for a structured way to reconnect without committing to a more intensive format.

The third group is post-retreat couples. These partners have already completed a retreat experience and want to continue building on what they started. The workshop provides a focused way to reinforce skills and maintain progress.

There are also couples for whom the workshop is not the right starting point. Those in acute crisis, dealing with a significant breach of trust, or facing major relationship instability, may benefit more from the depth of a retreat. In those cases, the private couples therapy retreat offers a more appropriate level of support.

Your Facilitator

The workshop is led by Andrew Sofin, a licensed psychotherapist and registered marriage & family therapist (MA, RP, TCF, RMFT). This is an important distinction. The facilitator is not a coach or general educator, but a trained clinician specializing in relationship dynamics and intimacy work.

The approach used in the workshop draws from established, evidence-informed frameworks in couples therapy, including structured methods for understanding interaction patterns, improving communication, and rebuilding emotional and physical connection.

Within the Couples Retreat model, the facilitator’s role is to guide the process, not to impose solutions. Each couple’s experience is shaped by their specific dynamic, and the work is adapted accordingly.

For couples seeking a deeper level of engagement, additional therapeutic experiences are available through the private couples therapy retreat, which offers a more immersive format.

What You Take Home

One of the defining features of this couples intimacy workshop experience is what you leave with. The focus is not on general advice, but on specific, practical tools developed during the sessions.

First, you leave with a personalized cycle map. This is a clear representation of your interaction pattern, showing how both partners contribute to the dynamic and where change is possible.

Second, you leave with a set of practiced communication tools. These are not theoretical frameworks. They are techniques you have already used during the workshop, with guidance and correction from the facilitator.

Third, you leave with a written forward plan. This plan is created during the final module and reflects your specific relationship, not a generic template. It outlines how to continue the work and maintain progress.

Fourth, a follow-up structure is established. The workshop is not designed as a standalone moment but as part of an ongoing process. This follow-up allows you to revisit what you have learned and address new challenges as they arise.

For couples who want to continue further, the workshop often becomes the foundation for deeper work through the couples intimacy retreat, where these tools are expanded within a more immersive setting.

One of the defining features of this couples intimacy workshop experience is what you leave with. The focus is not on general advice, but on specific, practical tools developed during the sessions.

First, you leave with a personalized cycle map. This is a clear representation of your interaction pattern, showing how both partners contribute to the dynamic and where change is possible.

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frequently asked questions

What are guided intimacy exercises for couples, and how do they work?

Guided intimacy exercises for couples are structured activities facilitated by a licensed clinician, not self-directed tools couples attempt at home. In Andrew Sofin’s workshop, each exercise is introduced, practiced in the session, and followed by real-time feedback. This structure matters because many couples understand an exercise intellectually but become defensive or disconnected when practicing it. The facilitator’s presence enables immediate course correction and maintains the session’s emotional safety throughout the process.

Can couples do intimacy exercises on their own, or do they need a therapist?

Some basic intimacy exercises for couples can be practiced at home, and many benefit from self-guided tools. However, guided exercises with a trained facilitator produce different outcomes, specifically because the clinician’s presence allows exercises to continue safely when emotional reactivity arises, which consistently derails self-directed attempts. Partners who have already explored informal tools and keep hitting the same wall are often the best fit for this format — it provides the clinical structure needed to move past the point where they keep getting stuck.

Is the workshop appropriate for couples who have never done therapy before?

Yes. The workshop is designed equally for couples who are completely new to therapy and for those who already have some prior therapeutic experience. No background knowledge or previous work with a therapist is required in order to participate effectively. The facilitator carefully adjusts the pace, depth, and overall approach based on where you and your partner are currently starting from. Whether this is your very first time working with a therapist or you are continuing work you began somewhere else, the workshop provides a structured and supportive environment in which both partners can engage comfortably and with genuine confidence.

What actually happens in a couples intimacy workshop?

The workshop follows a structured curriculum made up of five modules. Each module builds on the previous one, starting with identifying your specific relationship patterns and moving through communication, emotional safety, and physical reconnection. The final module focuses on developing your own personalized forward plan. All work is done privately with the facilitator — there are no other couples present at any time during your sessions. Exercises are practised in the session itself, with real-time guidance and feedback provided by the facilitator in the moment, rather than assigned as homework to complete afterward. The goal throughout is practical, lasting change.

How is the workshop different from the couples intimacy retreat?

The workshop focuses on structured skill-building and practical tools within a shorter, more focused format. The private couples therapy retreat is a deeper, multi-day immersive experience designed for more intensive therapeutic work. Both formats are entirely private and are led by the same facilitator. The workshop suits couples who want a clear starting point or a structured way to thoughtfully address specific areas of their relationship. The retreat is better suited to more significant disconnection or more complex ongoing challenges. Many couples begin with the workshop and later continue with the retreat, using the workshop itself as a strong foundation.